I was playing basketball with some of my guy friends one night after work. We ended up on the subject of cheating. I asked why is it soo much worse when a female does it vs. a guy. I mean I honestly wanted to see it from their point of view. they said its two things that makes a girls cheating far far far more wrong than theirs.
A) when a guy cheats it just happens. like they’ll walk into a room and bam!! breast are out and who are they to say “no”. basically saying 9 times outta 10 they don’t plain it out. it simply happens. no guy in the right mind wakes up and thinks “hhmmpp imma cheat on my girl today and break a b*tch heart” B) when a female cheats we tend to have premeditated on it. meaning we talk over the situation with our girl friends a billion times before it happens. We weigh out the situation in our minds. We plan to cheat while they just…will…cheat
For men, the excitement is in the variety, like changing ice cream flavours for one day after years of sticking to just one. its an uncontested fact that most men can’t say no to sex and it boosts our ego to know that other women still desire us sexually. men cheating basically is because their girl refuses to try something spectacular during sex or she simply does not turn him on anymore “too much of everything is bad”
But women cheating its mainly because all the guy wants is just sex with no intimacy even when they’re in a relationship. most girls, if not all just love cuddling, touching, kissing and most importantly communicating and these days its very rare to find a guy thats down for all that. When most women cheat, its mostly intentional probably because he doesn’t pay attention to her basic emotional needs. Also a girl cheating is because most men tend to make them wear certain titles like grocery shopper, errand runner and baby sitter making them feel like maids instead of girlfriends or wives and this gives them a perfect reason to ‘seek attention somewhere else”.
Basically when you add up all the reasons for women cheating, its mainly because of their heart desires or their emotions that needs healing but for men its more like just adding trophies ” oh damn hommie, i met this girl at the club yesterday bro and damn she fine then we did shit together niggga, damn bruva she was goood”
Posted on Saturday, 2 June
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